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Please Remember the River

(This is a love letter of sorts to you, my readers)

Dear Your Name, (I know that doesn’t really go, but work with me and personalize it)

This will be almost stream-of-consciousness. I don’t usually do that…in fact, I don’t think I ever have.

I really respect the time you take to read this blog and engage with me and so I do not take it for granted. That said, I usually spend quite a bit of time and thought preparing and articulating my ideas in the posts I publish.

However, tonight (it’s about 11:48 p.m.) my intuition–or that last piece of pepperoni pizza–tells me to do something a little bit differently. I’m going to write very personally…from my heart, and I hope it does not come across as self-indulgent, because I’m imagining that it is just you and I sitting here silently with a cup of tea or coffee. This is what I would say…

You and I spend a lot of time on this site talking about our minds and personal development and embracing life.  We discuss pursuing our dreams…heck, we actually share our dreams sometimes here.

But what about the valleys? What about when you can’t present the “happy” face to the world? What about when you feel like you’ve kinda been kicked in the gut?

It’s generally my style to share some experiences or tips or advice, but I’m going to hold back and just do something kinda counter-intuitive (well, at least it would seem that way, but since I’m following my intuition, maybe it is all intuitive).

Please Remember…

That life is cyclical and circumstances flow like a river through our lives.

That you can let the “debris” flow out with the river and allow the cycle off life to cleanse you.

That you are strong as an oak and the river doesn’t move the oak, it nourishes it at the roots–even if you can’t see it.

That someone is sitting under the shade of your branches.

That someone looks up into your canopy with wonder and awe.

That all the knots in your trunk make the most beautiful, seasoned planks when they are sanded and finished.

That imperfections are okay.

That the only thing expected of you is what you came here to do: live and grow.

That’s all. Nothing more.

You survive and you are standing, still at the side of the river. Silent testament of strength. It is enough. Take a deep breath. Remember. Smile.

That’s all you have to do today. Be you. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Much Love,

Steve Rice Signature

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  • Judy Stuart

    Steve,

    Thank you for starting my day with a reminder that I am enough. In this crazy world that pushes perfection, I don’t have to be perfect. I just have to be me. Wiser words were never spoken, my friend.

    “You survive and you are standing, still at the side of the river. Silent testament of strength. It is enough. Take a deep breath. Remember. Smile.”

    I will remember….and smile today. Thanks!!

    Judy

    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Judy! So good to hear from you. I hope you are well. Thanks so much for taking the time to connect on my blog. I’m REALLY glad that this post connected in the way I intended it to. So glad it encouraged you. You are right. The world around us pushes us to be “perfect”—which means meet someone (another imperfect person’s) else’s perception of “perfect.” Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day!

  • http://thenicheclaritycoach.com Sherrie Koretke

    Wow, that was beautiful, Steve! :)
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    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Thanks for stopping to comment, Sherrie. (BTW…I’m still planning to organize that Mastermind Group, but just got sidetracked a bit. Will be in touch soon…would love to brainstorm business stuff with you)

  • http://www.areyoudressingyourtruth.com Jeanine Byers Hoag @ Dressing My Truth

    Steve, that was beautiful!! It brought tears to my eyes! You know, years ago, I took an art therapy class and we each had to go through the process ourselves that we were learning in the workshop.

    So I drew a picture of myself which was, drumroll please, a huge oak tree! I have no idea where that picture is now, but I have never forgotten it and I think of it from time to time to remind myself that that is who I am.

    Thank you for reminding me again and adding the river’s strength to my image!

    Jeanine
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    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Wow…well, your passing comment yesterday about life kinda dumping you on your tush recently made me start thinking about this and you were definitely in my mind and heart as I wrote. I’m sure that God was sending that image to me just to remind you! What a neat “full-circle” moment. Thanks again for your kind support. It means a lot.

  • http://www.deliberateblog.com Melody | Deliberate Receiving

    What a wonderful metaphor Steve! Imperfections are what make a tree beautiful and special. I love old trees. Really puts all those little details that we often criticize about ourselves during the day into perspective…

    You were right to follow your intuition. This was a beautiful piece.

    Hugs,
    Melody
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    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Thanks so much, Melody. I am writing that book on following intuition, so figured I better follow my own advice. :) I appreciate the confirmation, though and so glad it connected with my readers.

  • http://www.happymakernow.com Debbie @ Happy Maker

    Hey, Steve I am really glad that you stayed up late to talk to me. Ys, i am still standing after all the storms that I have weathered. I have seen the flood waters of tears that have over whelmed me, but I still stood stronge. I have enjoyed the beautiful breeze on those warm days when thing ran smooth. I have held my ground when raging water tried to sweep me away. And I am thankful for the people that enjoy me just being here holding stronge.

    Great post, you do wonderful late at night.
    Blessing to you,
    Debbie
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    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Debbie, that’s so wonderful and I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and then this post on Twitter. I’m glad that the post connected and you could relate personally. You are what I described in the post…a testament of strength. That’s so inspiring. Thanks for shining so brightly.

  • http://www.happymakernow.com Debbie @ Happy Maker

    What can I say Steve. The post just inspired me. You just brought the best out in me and I thank you.
    Have a wonderful evening.

    It is true though I have been through some real large storms.
    You make me smile and thanks for the kind words,
    Debbie
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  • http://30vanquish.com Matt R

    Thanks for reminding me that imperfections are okay. Imperfections are subjective anyways most of the time if not all of the time!

    Keep living and growing as well.

    • http://www.StevenERice.com Steve

      Love your blog, Matt! Glad I found you through Skooloflife on twitter. You are right that “imperfections” are subjective. I’m writing a new book and just wrote about the addiction to perfectionism in a chapter this afternoon. You are inspiring! Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

  • http://www.areyoudressingyourtruth.com Jeanine Byers Hoag @ Dressing My Truth

    Steve, that’s so sweet! I think you’re right, that God wanted to remind me of that image :) .
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  • Earl Harville

    Awesome!! Thanks once again for reminding us that we’re all connected with the mention that someone else is sitting under the shade of our branches. I just love that!!!

    • http://www.KarmicKappuccino.com Steve Rice

      You’re welcome, Earl! I’m really grateful that it connected with you and that the analogy was clear. :)